Christmas decision card
Use one card for one choice your child may hear. Keep completed cards private. Leave names, addresses, child details, private messages and legal arrangements off shareable copies.
Christmas choice or message
Adult proposing the change
Adult whose confirmation is needed
☐ Open
☐ Confirmed
Where the final wording was shared
Next check, if open
A proposal stays open until the relevant adult clearly agrees to the exact words. A sent message, silence or a child's report is not confirmation. If contact is unsafe or restricted, use the established route. This card cannot change a court order or decide legal authority.